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Tip for figuring out who to support in a conflict…


If you find yourself asked to take sides in a conflict between an adult and a child, say a parent and their (minor or otherwise dependant) kid, or a teacher and their student…

Stop and think about who has the power and agency in the conflict.

Stop and think about who has the ability to leave the situation if they so choose.

Stop and think about who has options, and how many options they have.

Stop and think about who is more supported by society and who is likely to get their way without intervention.

Stop and think about who is more at risk, who stands to suffer more harm.

Stop and think about who has/should have more experience and more coping skills to deal with stressful or difficult situations.

Stop and think about who is acting and who is reacting.

If you side with the powerful against the weak, you are perpetuating oppression.

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  1. If you like someone, wait.
  2. Give lots of compliments, even if you’re shy. Everyone else is too.
  3. Change. Get a haircut, try new perfume, get new sheets. Become better than you were before.
  4. Eat healthier. Learn to cook something fancy.
  5. Get up earlier and watch the sun come up.
  6. Wear soft clothes, take a bath, drink something warm.
  7. Meet someone new, even just a friend.
  8. Become closer with your friends and your family. Call your mother. Cry with your best friend. Tell everyone how much you appreciate them.
  9. Keep your room clean. Buy some candles. Let the natural light in.
  10. Make a list of reasons why you’ll be better off without them. Believe they are true, because they are.
  11. Listen to new music.
  12. Write everything you’re thinking and feeling. Write letters. Write happy letters, sad letters, and angry letters, even if you’re never going to send them.
  13. It’s okay to be sad, but not forever. Sadness is not as beautiful as music makes it seem. Lack of sleep makes your eyes droopy, not deep. Wake up every morning and tell yourself you’re going to have a good day.
  14. Go to the library. Don’t forget to look in the music section.
  15. Remove them from your life. Get rid of the things they gave you if they make you sad. They’re not worth it. You will never be happy if you continue to hold on to the things that make you sad.
  16. Make new memories.
  17. Try to find something to appreciate in everything you do or experience.
  18. Being alone is okay, you don’t have to surround yourself with people.
  19. Become your own best friend. Buy yourself coffee and drink it alone in a cafe. Take your time.
  20. Learn to love every bit of yourself.

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US National Anthem in minor key.

 Can this be the trailer music for the next dystopian movie?

fucking christ

If our government ever collapsed like in a book or a scary movie I really would love to see this become the national anthem

Someone needs to do this to open a baseball game or something and just not tell anyone before they sing

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  • AnonymousHey Beth, roughly what % of your tumblr dash is porn? Mine's like 50% porn. I don't normally reblog it unless it's really softcore stuff and I really like it... but yeah. Your posts on my dash can usually be found sitting between pictures of huge dongs.
  • That’s an interesting question. I get occasional classy/artsy nudes, very rarely do I get something particularly graphic or unclassy. I’ve seen cock-sucking gifs, but they’re not common.

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